
TRANSCRIPT OF
AN ORAL HISTORY GIVEN BY
LARKSFIELD PLACE RESIDENT
KENNETH THOMPSON
Recorded June 30, 1998
Interviewer: Rita Pearce, a graduate student of the Elliott School
of Communication at Wichita State University.
Today is June 30, 1998. The time is about 2:15. Im Rita Pearce, a graduate
student in the Elliott School of Communication at the Wichita State University. This
afternoon, Im interviewing Kenneth Thompson, a resident of Larksfield Place.
Larksfield Place is a retirement in Wichita, Kan. The interview is taking place in Mr.
Thompsons apartment, E-110. This interview is being conducted as a part of the I,
Witness to History program. Mr. Thompson, would you tell me a little bit about your
childhood?
Thompson: I was born about three miles and a half of Wichita State University on north
Hillside in 1914, the 22nd day of March. I have an older brother, two years
older, little over two years, who is now deceased. I have a younger brother thats
about five years younger who lives on the west side of town. All three of us started to
country school which was about a mile from our house, you had to walk across field. It was
the corner of 45th and Oliver. That building stood for a number of year, it was
a brick building. The Koch company finally brought the property, but the latter years that
facility had only been used as a residence, but people, the building is no longer there,
they tore the building down. My older brother went eight years to country school, I went
with him the last year or two. Then he was, could have gone to Valley Center High School,
but since Wichita High School East was closer, the county would pay his tuition to go to
East High. So he went the 9th grade there. The country school then finished one
month before the Wichita schools, and at the end of his ninth year, at Roosevelt, he asked
me one day, why dont you go with me, because my school was already out, and I said,
well, ok, Ill go. And I kind of fell in love with the place. You got to play
baseball, and you got to go to woodwork room and make on things, and you sure didnt
do that in country school. So I talked to my parents to see if they wouldnt let me
go to East High the next year, the seventh grade, which they let me do. They had to pay a
tuition, which was a nominal thing, I remember, a dollar a month or two dollars a month or
something. And I was really glad to get to do that. My younger brother had gone one year
to country school with me when I was in the sixth grade. So he went to Fairmount School in
Wichita and they had to pay tuition for him. We had a car to drive and most of the time we
drove, sometime our folks took us. And we left my younger brother at a place, it would be
about 25th and north Hillside, and that family had two that went to Fairmount
school, so they would take all three of them in later in the morning to Fairmount. Then on
the way home we would pick the three of them up, my brother and those two boys, and bring
them back to their place, and my brother home. I started taking piano lessons probably in
the fourth grade, somewhere along in there, and when I went to Roosevelt, I talked to the
music teacher and she said, yeah, she could use me as a piano player for the orchestra.
Then along, oh, in the first semester, Raymond Hunt who was teaching at East High doing
band and orchestra, was also the supervisor of instrumental music. He brought over a
brand-new trombone one day and asked her to find someone to play it. Well, I said,
Id sure be glad to do that so thats the way I got started playing the
trombone. I took lessons then from the trombone player in the Middle Theater Orchestra.
Thats when they had live orchestras. And there were two, or three or four of these
players that had a studio and I think it was the corner of Emporia and 1st
street. I think that building is still standing there. There was a coffee company on the
lower floor, and I know that as you went up to the second floor where the studios where,
it always smelled like coffee. (Interviewer laugh.) So then my older brother had one year
to go to high school when I finished Roosevelt. And our father one day during this summer
said, "Did you ever think about going to this new high school?" That was North
High School, it was going to open in the fall of 29. We kind of looked at each other
and said, "No, we didnt." We knew how far it was to East High, so one day
we were going in the near direction of North, and we kind of checked it out on the car
speedometer and it was about the same distance, so it didnt make much difference
which school we went to, so we concluded well, we might as well go a brand-new school. So
I went to North High School. Along in my junior year, the counselor talked to me and said,
"Youve taken enough subjects, you could finish by the first semester next
year." So I did, I only went to two and a half to high school. My older brother had
gone to Friends University, he was in his second year. I wasnt too thrilled about
going to Friends, they werent doing much with instrumental music then. But I
enrolled over there, and as I remember, took 15 hours, it was about $5 an hour then, $75
when wheat was only 20 to 30 cents a bushel made it pretty tough for my folks, I know. But
during the summer of 32, he started about wanting to be an agri-major, thats
agriculture. So theres only one school to go to and that was K-State. So, I started
and looking and talking and seeing what I could find out about the music department there,
which seemed to be as good as anyplace. Friends wasnt doing anything much with
instrumental, Wichita State wasnt doing a whole lot with it. So we both went up
there. Money was pretty scarce. We lived five blocks of Aggieville, if you know Manhattan.
We paid $10 a month for our room. We ate family-style meals at a ladys house for 20
cents. Once in a while you felt rich and had dime and would buy a bowl of oatmeal at a
restaurant on the way to campus. But must of the time, we just ate two meals a day there
for a while. Uh (pause) I think, I was always glad that I went there to school.
Pittsburgh had a supposedly good department, Emporia had a good department. We had a transfer student
from Emporia, and his feeling was that this is a much better music department at K-State
than what Emporia had. I played in both band and orchestra there, and of course, it took
all kinds of music courses. My high school teacher probably was the one I talked to about
getting into this business. And I think one of the best advises I had from anybody was he
said, if youre going to do that, you buy you a violin and start taking violin
lessons when you go to the university and learn a string instrument. It almost killed me
for the first semester, I just sounded so bad practicing on that thing. And then
youd go take a lesson and the teacher would play these little pieces and it would
sound so beautifully and youd wonder what is he doing with the bow and and with his
fingers that I cant do (both laugh) that his sounds and mine sounds so bad. The
second semester I began to make a little progress to satisfy myself and get out of just
playing first position and learn the vibrato and start playing some little student
concertos and then it was kind of fun. He wanted me to be real serious about playing a
violin, but in those days there wasnt any place to go play. That would have been a
real rough career. So along in my junior year, which would have been my second year at
K-State, I went into the deans office. That would have been the dean of general
science, thats where the music department was to ask about a course or schedule or
something. He got all of my things and looked at it, and in the course of talking to him,
he said, "You know, if youd take so many hours next year, you could
graduate." So, I just got busy and did that, in spite of working about 15 hours a
week at the library. Started for 22.5 cents an hour. But there you were, in those days,
you could buy a family-style meal for 20 cents. You work an hour and you could buy a meal.
So, it about comes out even. I dont know what it is now today. So I graduated n
three years at K-State and one half year from Friends University and I was out looking for
a job when I was 21 years old. I s pent Easter vacation talking to four or five
superintendents that you got in a town of any size. Theyd say, "Well, Id
be glad to take your application, but when the board gets together, Im sure
theyre going to require that we hire somebody with experience.
I remember right in the middle of finals I caught the bus home and went to South Haven,
Kan., which is about 60 miles or so south of Wichita to interview for a job. And as I
remember, there were three other men down there applying for the same job. They took us in
one at a time and talked to us. I got a letter in a few days offering me the job. Also
that same trip down to South Haven that night and then staying at home, I had three finals
the next day at K-State.
Interviewer: Oh, my.
Thompson: My father drove and took me back. I remember sitting in the car in the front
seat and turning on a little heat and go good and sleepy and I slept most of the way up
there. But at 8 oclock, I had one in advanced grammar, 10 oclock was in the
form and analysis of music and at 1 oclock it was analytic geometry and I was
through with finals. The next day probably at 7 oclock or 6:30 I caught a bus to
Topeka then a bus to Emporia to meet a superintendent from a small town that was southwest
out of Emporia. I dont recall the name of it. I drove through it a few years ago,
the high school is all boarded up and I kind of drove around the time and wondered, if I
had gotten a job here, where would I have stayed. He called me in a few days and offered
me that job, but the afternoon I went to South Haven, I stopped by to see my high school
who was then the supervisor of high school bands in Wichita to see if he would write me a
letter of recommendation. I thought having a letter in this area would carry a little
weight. He wrote the letter, turned around and handed it to me and said, "Id
like for you to apply for a job in Wichita. Im trying to get created, vocal teachers
are doing what they can with bands and orchestras, but I want to get somebody in here just
to do the bands and orchestras, so I wish youd apply. Well, to make a long story
short, I applied, I think there were two or three others that applied for it. I was lucky
and got the job. I left Roosevelt in 1929 and in 1935 in the fall, I was back there
teaching (both laugh). Probably set a record I guess. A lot of the teachers I had in class
at Roosevelt were still there. I did that for 11 years, elementary and junior highs. I had
four junior highs that first year, then went to an elementary school several afternoons
after school. Which meant that you started about 8:30 and got through at 5 oclock in
the afternoon. A little bit longer days I think that teachers put in now. I did that for
11 years. In the summer of 48, I was working as an inspector out at Cessna, a former
physical ed teacher at Allison was personnel director and I saw him in a Safeway store
long about the time school was out. I hadnt seen him for a while, and I said,
"Well, you got me a big job lined up for this summer, lot of pay, big title, not very
much work?" He said, "Well, those jobs are to come by." And I said, "I
realize that." But in a few days he called me and said, "Were you serious about
working there?" and I said, "Oh, I was going to work for the Park Department
again. Always somethings better." And he said, "Well, Id like to
talk to you, can you come out some afternoon after school" which I did. So they
offered me a job as an inspector on the second shift, which kind of fitted in. We had
bought this house and it needed a lot of tender, loving care. It was a shingle-sided house
that had never been stained. So I decided Ill stain it and paint the trim this
summer and work out there. So youd get up about 9 oclock and work and then
work on the house, clean up and go to work I guess about 3 oclock or 3:30 in the
afternoon, get home at 12:30. Made for kind of long days. It was about a week, maybe 10
days before school started.
I had just started one Saturday morning with this stain and it was real thin, a gallon
of paint and a gallon of diesel fuel and a gallon of linseed oil, so it soaks in real good
the shingles on the side, not the roof, but the side of the house. My wife came to the
back door after I had been painting for about an hour, and I said take a number. She said,
well, its Dr. Fowler, the superintendent of schools. So, I came down, tiptoed in the
back door and picked up the phone and he said, "Well, weve had a resignation at
East High School and weve kind of had a meeting and everybody think youre the
one that should go there. Id like to talk to you about it."
Interviewer: Oh.
Thompson: I said, "Well, when do you want to see me?" And he said,
"Ill see you any time you want to come down." And I said, "Give me an
hour, and Ill be there." So I went down, that was a Saturday morning, and I, uh
asked him a few questions and he told me a few things, like it wont pay any more
money. I said I dont know this principal, I dont know the assistant principal,
my students, I was down to one junior high and a grade schools around that in my latter
years which is a nice job, teaching junior high in the morning, go out to the grade
schools in the afternoon. It was a nice job. But all my students had been going to North
High, so I really didnt know what was happening at East High. He said, "Well,
Ill call and make an appointment and see if the principal and the vice-principal are
there." So I did, I went by and talked to them at East High that morning.
Interviewer: What they like?
Thompson: And I said, "What can you tell me about enrollment?" Well, they got
out these great big sheets that principals used to have, they put tally's on for teachers.
You put four marks and one for five and thats the way they keep track. Well, it
looked it was about 35 or so for orchestra, band, well, they couldnt tell for sure
and the principal said, "Well, its just inconceivable that a school with 3,500
students you couldnt have a 100-piece band." And I said, "You know,
youve probably got 1,500 boys out here, so you got potentially 1,500 football
players. Youve got 3,500 students out here, youve got potentially 3,500 glee
club members, but if they dont happen to play instruments, you could have 35,000 out
here and youre not going to have a 100-piece band unless youve got that many
people that play instruments." It didnt seem to make much difference to him.
Id asked the superintendent before Id left that morning when he wanted to
know. He said, "Id like to know this afternoon." And I said, "If I
have to tell you this afternoon, Ill just tell you right now, I dont want to
go. I dont make up my mind that quick, I sleep over one night at least."
What was going through my mind I wanted to talk to some of the private teachers around
town to see what kind of material there was at East High. Well, I did call the first of
the week, I guess it was Monday, and told him that I would do it. I did quit Cessna a
little bit early because I wanted to go down to East High and get familiar with what was
going on down there. The first day of school came, the orchestra was about 35. The band
that was supposed to be the performing band there were 28 that showed up in it. I talked
to the principal later in the day and he said, "Well, just take a little time to
develop things." A school of 3,500 and 28 in the band. There was another band and
what I did those first few days, I listened to them play a lot and go home and draw my
picture of my band, how many flute players, clarinet players trumpets and so fourth and so
on. And how many players I could get out of this other band. I finally found about 52 or 3
three that I called my first band. You can march six by eight, which is not a very large
band, 48. The next year, I got in some excellent sophomores, particularly string players.
The orchestra was just like a different orchestra the next year. I got in some good wind
players and we had more of them and we marched 60 that year. Next year we did 72, the next
year, we did 96. Thats about as big as I ever wanted it to be. Thats a
good-sized high school band. That was about, I could take care of most of the better
players in that band.
We started playing some evening concerts after a year or two. There was going to, West
High opened in 53. I lost two or three or four players, didnt make a lot of
difference. Southeast opened in 57. I knew what was coming in the Southeast because
I kept track of all the junior high, the incoming sophomores in the fall. So I knew
exactly what was going to transfer from the East, what was going to Southeast. It
didnt look like the orchestra was going to be much. I could have my 60-string
players at East High plus the wind players and have an orchestra of 80 or so. So, I stayed
at East. I didnt get too enthused about moving. And it turned out about that way.
The orchestra started out pretty slow.
I stayed there until 1966. The Art Harold, who was director of music education asked me
if I would apply for the job of coordinator of instrument music for the city that Harold
Childs was leaving, going to Des Moines to take a job there. And I applied and was
selected to do that in 1966. I stayed there for 13 years and retired in 1979. Thats
a kind of a quick run down of where I was and what I did.
Interviewer: Goodness. What was it like to coordinate a whole city full of
Thompson: We had about 40 some teachers. One of my responsibilities was to assign
teachers in elementary school. Now about the time I went to East High, or just a year or
two before that, they did hire one or two string teachers for elementary school. And they
did start teaching in school time. When I first started in 35, all that elementary
thing I did was after school. And so, the year or two before I went to East High. Well,
Art Harold came to town one year later, in 49, and they hired some teachers. He had
worked with Dr. Fowler in Jefferson City. So they got along real well, they got some
budget money and bought some school instruments and really things got off the ground then
a lot better. And by the time I was in, in66, they had teachers for string
instruments and wind instruments in all the grade schools at that time.
About the only change I made there was instead of spending so much time in one school
and maybe having classes for an hour, just have them for 30 minutes. Elementary students
get pretty tired pretty quick, so if you go just once a week, Thursday and Friday comes
teachers meeting time, you dont see them for two week. Thanksgiving comes two,
three weeks later, you only see them, theres a big gap in there. If you see them
twice a week, well you only missed them once that week. I found that out in my junior high
at Allison, that works so much better.
As I said before it gets kind of tiresome where little kids holding up an instrument
for a whole hour. Just get them into and work and send them back to class. Because
theyre coming out of a class to be in there. We had then started elementary
concerts, vocal concerts, with all the sixth graders and then theyd started some
area elementary orchestras. Theyd do these programs in gymnasiums. I dont
know, there were about a half dozen maybe of those groups. In a year or two, they decided
to do away with the vocal thing, and I talked to some of the instrumental teachers and I
said, "How about us start some elementary bands along with these orchestras? Get out
of the gymnasiums and play em in the auditorium where they ought to be. With this
many students, well get a decent crowd. Wont have to worry about that."
So we did make a change there. There were three areas across the north,
northeastnorth central, northwest, east central. Theres not a mid-central,
theres hardly any schools down there. So you had two west central and three across
the south. So there actually were eight elementary bands, eight elementary orchestras. And
some of the people that conducted them were high school people, some junior high, some
elementary school. We had a way that we organized them that worked reasonably well.
Then along came this cross-busing thing. The superintendent, Al Morris, asked
everybody, what is it going to affect your department good, bad or indifferent.
Whats going to happen? So I sat around and thought about it and heres the
situation, say the northwest that student is bussed to Ingalls School, north of East High.
So Tuesday afternoon at 4:30 he should be over at East High to a rehearsal. So hows
he get from Ingalls over to East High. Well mother probably comes in and will take him
over. Now I watched these things work, and it was the carpools of the mothers that brought
em, carpools of the fathers that came and picked em up, mothers home cooking.
Whats mother going to do, is she going to stay there until 5:30? Or is somebody
going to make another trip to East High. Now were doing this for black students, the
cross-busing. Ok, the black student is bused out of the Ingalls district to the northwest
area. Hes in elementary school and he ought to be over at Wilbur Junior High at
4:30. How does he get over there to rehearse? Well, theres white families that would
probably see that he got there, but the worst part is, its now 5:30 at hes at
Wilbur Junior High and he lives in the northeast corner of Wichita. Hows he get
home? And I mentioned this to the curriculum director who was my immediate superior. And
he said, "Oh boy, I think the superintendents cabinet ought to know this. Do
you want to present it to them?" And I said, "Oh, yeah, Ill do it."
Youre talking about the superintendent, the deputy superintendent, director of
elementary ed, secondary ed, personnel, the money person, maybe one or two more, the
curriculum director and what not. So I mentioned and went over it with them down at South
High that we were meeting that morning. And the superintendent looked at me and said,
"What are you going to do?" And I said, "Well, I think you have to be
honest in this business. We can just do away with it, but well have to tell em
why were doing away with it." And they said, "Oh, no, no, no. Dont
do that." And finally some them asked me some questions, and the superintendent said,
"What are you going to do?" and I said, "Were going to do it." I
said, "I never keep track of black and white, it doesnt make any difference to
me. But Ill venture to say well have less black people taking part in this
that we did before. And here we are, doing a project that were supposed to be
helping, but in my case, I dont think it is. I never kept track, but I think we had
fewer taking part in it. Oh, I dont know what else I can tell you. Ive had
some interesting experiences with students. Maybe you want to hear about that?
Interviewer: Yes.
Thompson: I didnt know this until years later, but a black student that came to
East High told me this years later. He said he was enrolling at central, they called them
junior highs, thats the old high school on north Emporia. That was a junior high.
And he was working with his counselor, and they had three subjects, gym and study. But you
have to have six. So he needed one more, so the counselor said, "What about
music?" And he said, "Well, I never did anything with it?" She said,
"What about band?" and he said, "Well, never did anything, always kind of
wanted to." And she says, "You know, I think they start them out there out at
East High in the second band, lets write band down." So he said that what she
put down. He said, "I remember coming to class the first day. There were some other
black students and I asked one what he played and he said they played the drums. So when
you called roll, and I said, yeah, I played the drums. But he said, I didnt. But it
wasnt anything unusual, every semester I had one or two or three. There were several
that year that wanted to be drummers. Its the cheapest thing you can do, buy a pair
of sticks, a practice pad and a book. So some of them would show up the next day with
their equipment, and some would take two or three weeks to get it. But I remember he did
real well. What I would do was put them in practice rooms by themselves, beginning of the
hour, show them what to do, go back at the end of the hour and and, yeah, thats
fine, turn the page over and do this. And if they go home and practice, theyd come
back the next day and could do it. And youd see them the first of the hour,
thats fine, turn the page over and now do this. So he did, he did real well, and I
said to him one day, "You got such a late start, if youre real serious about
this, why dont you see if your parents will give you private lessons? Thatll
be the quickest way to catch up." So he told me yeah, they would. So I got him with
Bob Buggart who was the percussion teacher at Wichita State and played in the symphony.
And I kept checking with Bob how he was doing. And he said, "Well, hes doing
all right." Finally, he said one time, "You know, hes really catching on,
hes really doing all righ." Well, he learned solos I think it was his senior
year, I dont think it was his junior year, but his senior year, I remember he got a
medal at Emporia in the state festival playing a snare drum solo. So thats doing
pretty good. Now he didnt tell me all of this until years later. He said, "I
was not accepted in my community. This is in the 50s, I was not accepted in my community
because I achieved some success. I got into Sons of American Legion Drum and Bugle Corps
and it was mostly whites and that didnt go over very big either. So it seemed like a
tragedy, here he is a role model in the community, but he wasnt accepted in his own
community. He went to Wichita. He got to talking to me about it. He said, "Id
like to be in the business youre in." So I asked the head of the music
department of Wichita State, if he did, could you get him a job. He said, well no trouble
in the South, theyre begging for music teachers in the South, well get him a
job all right. He did have Ds in English and English is a subject that they sort em
out real quick in university as you probably well know, so I talked to one of his English
teachers and said, what do you think, should I encourage him? And she said, I think
hes got the ability, hes just never got turned on. He just didnt do too
much in English. I think if he put his mind to it he could do it all right. Well, he went
to Wichita State and then along about his junior year, I think somewhere along in there,
he went left and went to UCLA for a few quarters. And then he came back to Wichita State
and I had him as a student teacher. And I was real impressed with him, the guy was a good
conductor. He could stand up there and say, "Trombones, thats A flat, third
position, and clarinets, thats F sharp, play with your middle finger" and stuff
like that, which kind of startled me and I told Art Harold if he had a vacancy he ought to
hire him, but they didnt seem to have that year. Some of the university people told
me he got married and she was teaching in elementary school and she kind of hit him over
the head and said, get with it now and get out of school and they got jobs in Michigan.
And I kind of lost track of him. And years later, he told me some of this. He got involved
in the civil rights thing in Philadelphia and Washington and what not. Now along the way
there, he got his masters out of, oh, the Michigan school in Detroit, Ill
think of it in a minute, its in Detroit. Anyway he got involved in sociology and
that field.
Interviewer: Oh, he did.
Thompson: Now thisll surprise you. Where do you think he got his doctorate?
Stanford.
Interviewer: My goodness.
Thompson: So he got involved in that, and he ended up, and has now been at Central
Michigan University, Mount Pleasant, Mich., for 25 years. Hes head of the department
there now. Now he didnt tell me a lot of this stuff until the last few years.
Hes been here to Larksfield a time or two. He came down here to the apartment six or
eight years ago and spent a couple of hours. And he said one thing General Motors laid off
25,000 people in the state of Michigan. And I said what are they supposed to do for jobs
and he said we dont have jobs for them. And I guess he ought to know, knowing a
sociologist what the situation is. Said for instance if we could ever figure out what to
do with trash, we could employ a lot more people in this country, if we could figure out
what to do with that. Hes been back to some class reunions, Ive seen him. A
year ago last April, my wife and I were headed for New Orleans, a granddaughter that lives
there is a landscape architect, and he called me about something, I think he had been in
town, but he didnt have time to come and see me and got to talking about he was
going to a convention in New Orleans and I said when you are going to be there and it
turned out we were going to be there at the same time. So we decided wed call each
other exchanged phone numbers and we finally got together and had lunch down there. I
think thats the last time Ive seen him now; we get Christmas cards.
Theres a reunion of that class coming up this fall, I dont whether well
make it for sure or not. Thats, thats I think is a classic example of what
maybe music does. Now he didnt follow through in music, but thats kind of
beside the point. At least it kept him in school and he got interested and, look what
hes done for himself. You cant help buy think if Id have said,
"Well, I dont really have time to get you started, maybe you ought to go get
your schedule changed and build radios or go to woodwork class or something, what would
have happened to him?
Interviewer: May have been all together different, hadnt it?
Thompson: You dont know. Another example, this was entirely opposite. There was
this student at Roosevelt that had been giving the teacher all kinds of trouble, sitting
in the office, hard bench more times that hed sat down in the music room, I think.
He was coming to East High, he was a good trombone player. And, I sent out cards ahead of
time, maybe a month before school started saying when I would be down at school to give
out uniforms. I didnt want to do that on a hot afternoon after school when students
are busy. So I was there half a dozen times, they were working, they could drop in at noon
hour, they come before or what not. And it worked very well, most of them would drop in
sometime and get a uniform before school started. I didnt send him a card because I
had a deal with the person who did the enrollment: These are the ones I wanted in my first
band. These were pretty well selected, so many flute players, clarinet players, saxophone
players, trombone, trumpet, percussion and so fourth. Anybody else that enrolls, just put
them in second band. But if its convenient, give them study or gym, so it would be
real easy to change if I decided to move some of these people, which I did during the
years. Well he didnt get a card, and he called me at home and wanted to know if
there had been some mistake, and I said, no there really hasnt, this is the way I
planned it. You had a problem over at Roosevelt, spent a lot of time sitting down in the
office. You came to summer school and you had two or three different teachers and they
didnt have very good things to say about you. No, youll be in second band.
Then this little meek voice said, "Well, then would I have a chance?" and I said
"Ive never had you in class." And he said, "Well, Ok, thanks a
lot." So the first day of school came and he came to second band, and the rest of
them got out their instruments and played which doesnt bother me, it bothers some
people, they cant stand all that everybody playing (laugh). He sat with his trombone
across his lap. So I explained that this band doesnt do much; sometimes well
play a program around here and you can invite your parents, but if you want in the band at
football games, basketball, parades, concerts, thats the band before this in fourth
hour. Anybody interested in being in that band? So the hands go up like this. So you hand
out a little march book and you play a little bit altogether and you say now you were
interested in the other band and you were interested in the other band, the trombone
player, and yeah. Let met hear you play these three people. Well if you can play, you can
play your part. Sometimes a clarinet player got lost in two measures and all we had left
was a saxophone player and a trombone player. But boy here was this beautiful trombone.
Interviewer: Was that him?
Thompson: By himself, you know, everybody else quit. And I, did I ever need trombone
players. So after about three days, he walked up after class and said, "I wonder if
you thought anything I said anybody can take care of themselves for a few days" and
just walked on by. End of the week, I walked back there, and I said, "Is this the way
youve taken care of yourself?" And I could see him getting red in the fact, and
I thought well, Im getting through to him I think. I said, "Ill go over
right now and get your schedule changed and youll be in the other band Monday."
"Oh, thanks a lot," he said, "I really appreciate that." I took about
three steps then turned around and looked him right in the eye and said, "You just
remember, its just as easy to change you back."
Interviewer: Oooohh.
Thompson: He turned out to be a good student. I made drum major out of him when he was
a senior. I knew he wanted to be a doctor, he had expressed an interest in that. The last
thing I heard he had gone to KU and had got his degree and had been admitted to medical
school. I didnt hear any more until I belonged to Downtown Kiwanis Club and a doctor
that took care of the interns at Wesley talked that day, and I never thought about them
fighting over interns, they want 'em. He said, we get some of the best graduates out of KU,
that why we want these nice dorms for them and their wives to live in so we can get
those top graduates. This had never occurred to me. So after the meeting was over, I
walked up and I said have your ever come across the name of so and so, and he said,
hes the most sought-after graduate of this medical college.
Interviewer: Oohhh.
Thompson: He said, "We think were going to get him." My daughter had a
son that had a little cyst on his eye and they took it off in the hospital and she says
hes down there working in the emergency room so I went down and talked to him. Then
he got into practice with some older doctors about my age up on north Hillside and then I
heard that he left there and was down at St. Joe during the emergency room. I saw him, and
I said I understand you moved down there. Yeah, he said, I didnt. I just didnt
like patients controlling my life. And I said what do you mean, he said, they cant
take an aspirin without having to call you up and asking if its all right to take an
aspirin. He said, now I know how much money Im going to make, I know my hours and all
that. And I said, well, you get in all the good, gory stuff. Yeah, he said, but you do
what you can with em, turn them over to the family doctor and youre through
with them. I heard this from another student at East High who was, his mother was a nurse
out at Wesley. And this was when he was in practice with these doctors up on north
Hillside with the doctors. An older lady came in and wondering, you know, have you ever
any older patients. And he said, "Well, Ive had three." And she said,
"Howd you get along with them?" And he said, "Well they all
died."
Interviewer: Oh, my word.
Thompson: (Laugh) I thought that sounded exactly like him. I went to one of these area
band rehearsals one night. I was just elementary thing I was talking to you about.
Id go someplace every afternoon to hear one, I didnt conduct any of them, but
I just went to see how they were getting along, and by the time they had rehearsed all
these weeks, I had heard all of them. Maybe some of them two or three times. This mother
walked up after rehearsal and said, "You dont know me but Im Myron
Hulkmans wife." Its this doctor. I said, "Hows Myron?"
She said, "Just as ornery as he ever was."
Interviewer: (Laugh). Is that right?
Thompson: When I retired, I have two sons and two daughters and they wanted to come
home. Said, lets have a Sunday afternoon. We still have friends in Wichita and
well invite some of our friends and give us a list and well invite them to
come by the house. I got a nice note from him saying, "You made me grow up in about
five minutes after I got to East High school." Also they had one of these class
reunions, and then Gary Ray that runs Wichita band was in that class and he wanted to have
a luncheon and invite the graduates. So I went that luncheon. They went around the table
talking about East High and the things that we did. It came his turn and he said, "A
guy made me grow up real quick at East High." (Interviewer laughs) Now I could have
lost him. This is what went through my mind: Heres a good trombone player, what am I
going to do to him. But he isnt going to be much good to you, I dont mind
them, maybe they got a streak of go-go-go. But turn it loose in the right way, and then
youve got a great student.
Interviewer: Well, evidently. Thats another one.
Thompson: I dont know, Ive rambled on, is this what you want to here?
Interviewer: It is, it definitely is.
Thompson: My family, I guess you ought to know about them. I was married in 1937 to
Dorothy Seward, whose father was a well-known artist here in Wichita and his estate and
what-not. If you look on the walls around here, youll see a lot of lithographs
particularly. He did lithographs and etchings and some oils and block prints. Theres
a block print right over there. Thats take pieces of linoleum and the lower one on
the right-hand side, the lines are real wide, thats what you call a block print.
Take battleship linoleum and you dig out where you dont want it printed and you ink
whats left and thats where you want to print. Its backwards, of course.
This is a lithograph pencil. You do that on a zinc plant. Ink it then you wipe it off and
in the process this ink stays where that lithograph pencil has marked. Its
backwards, of course, when you do it. Now etchings, theres some around here. I
dont think there are any in this room. Theyre real fine lines. You take a zinc
plate and put wax on it. Then you scratch out the wax. And where ever you scratch out the
wax is a recessed part. Clean the wax off, ink it, wipe it off and the ink stays in this
recessed place. Put on the press and that only inks the paper where that recessed paper is
with ink. Thats what you call an etching. Theres one in the other room in
here. Now maybe youve heard of Son Seine, the artist that was as Bethany College for
years. That top one that was our wedding present when we got married. She brought some of
these oils, this one and one over there. That stitchery, the rabbit up there? My first
wife got real interested in doing that. You just take a needle with some thread (chuckle)
I cant draw a box hardly. But she could just sit of an evening and make a little
porcupine down below. She taught some of those classes at our house for a number of years.
Interviewer: Oh, she did? Well, she had some artistic talent too, just like her father.
Thompson: Her younger sister, thats an oil there, a sunflower, that she did. She
lived in Middletown, Ohio, then in Kansas City then in the latter years in Columbia. This
is my four.
Interviewer: Your four children?
Thompson: Yep. This is the grandchildren. This was taken in '87. Thats the year
I, 89, thats the year I retired. Now, that isnt right. 79.
Interviewer: That sounds right.
Thompson: Is that right, 79. No, Im wrong again. This was our 50th
wedding anniversary which was in 87. Yeah, I was right the first time. Thats
Jim, the oldest. We lost him to pancreatic cancer about two years ago. Jane is down there
next to him. This is Barb over here on the left-hand side. Thats Dave on the
right-hand side. Dave is the one that wrote those articles.
Interviewer: For Better Homes and Gardens?
Thompson: Yes, thats him. Jim called me, did I tell you that, in February two
years ago.
Interviewer: No, I dont think so.
Thompson: In the middle of the day, Thursday before Valentines Day and said, are
your doing all right. And I said, Im fine, and he said I knew you had some trouble a
while back. And I guess youre talking about that tumor I had in my bladder that they
took out which was malignant. Yeah, thats it. Are you all right? And I said, yeah,
I went back to the doctor in three months and four months and six months, and I said I
been going a year now. Are you guys OK, and he said, yeah, were fine. And we talked
about the weather, it had been raining quite a bit out there, and I said are you getting
the reservoirs filled up? He lives in Alameda, Calif., which in on the east side of the
bay from San Francisco, right next to Oakland. I hung up the phone and my wife said,
"What was all of that about?" and I said, I dont know, he wondered how I
was doing. And she said, well are they OK, and I said, well I guess so, I gave him room to
talk and so I kind of stirred up my curiosity so I called him the next day. And he said,
"Well, Ive had this back ache they couldnt account for. They did an MRI
and I go in next Tuesday to see the result." And he called my Tuesday about 10 or 11
oclock in the morning and said they had diagnosed that as pancreatic cancer.
Ive got about three months to live. Three weeks from that day, Dave over there,
called me and thats when they gave us some people that were therapists of some kind
at WSU. The feeling was that they had never been with older people, they dont live
with their families any more, older people. And here youve got a people growing up
that have never been around older people much, so they assigned two to me and they had a
little finger food down in the auditorium for the people, these people from WSU, and I had
two assigned to me. I took them around the show them the health care and the fitness
center. And I said, you want to see my apartment? And they said, yeah, Id like to
see it. It was a young man and a young woman. We walked in here and walked into that room
in there and the phone rang. I picked it up and it was Dave. And we never call much
through the years in the middle of the day, we always called each other in the evening.
And he said, have you talked to Barb recently and I said yeah, I talked to her last night.
And he said have you talked to her today, and I said no. He said Mary Lou died this
morning, thats Jims wife three weeks after he was diagnosed with having
pancreatic cancer. So I called Jim and he said, well, I had trouble sleeping recently and
this Lazy Boy chair downstairs. Hes retired about a year, she was still working. She
was head of the dental hygienists at a community college there at Alameda. Said she ought
to be getting up and going to work, so I went upstairs and she was leaning against the
bathroom door, couldnt get her breath and said, "You gotta do something for
me." I got her laid down in bed and called the 911 and they were there in just a few
minutes and said what you tell us and I said I cant tell you a thing, shes
never done this before. I dont know whats going on. They thought she had an
aneurysm but when they did an autopsy she had a blood clot in her lungs or heart area down
there. Kaiser, a retired surgeon here, I was talking to him about it and he said those
things are fatal. Said they usually start in a vein in your leg and get up back in your
heart and lung area. So we, that was the first part of February, well, it was the day
before, that would have been the end of February. So we went out for the memorial service
for her. Jim had lost quite a bit of weight, he was going pretty good. Now my second wife
is a retired nurse. When all this came up, she said, well, hes going to need help,
well go out and take care of him. I said are you sure you want to get involved in
all this and she said oh yeah, well do it. So he said no, Im doing pretty
good, why dont you go home and Ill keep your informed. Well, he called about
the end of April and said I just am beginning to need some help. So we went out. He was
still doing pretty good. He would dress for a day. We would go on some nice walks and sit
around and visit and what-not. But you could think back a week before and he was doing
better than he is now. You could just see him going down. My wife, Jane, says, "You
know this is different. I spent most of my time in nursing as in pediatrics and
orthopedics. You get them in, theyre ill. Theyve got broken arms, theyve
got pneumonia or you get them well and you send them home. But this is the other way, this
is all down hill." He lasted until the 10th of July.
Interviewer: So you were out there how long with him?
Thompson: Well, he was diagnosed in February. We all together up in Green Bay, Wis.,
with Jane on Thanksgiving. I dont remember him saying anything, but I think Jane
said that he mentioned then he was having trouble with his back. Well people have trouble
with backs, thats as old as old. It was kind of interesting while we were there for
the memorial service. I think what he was going to do he was going to starve to death,
that was the route he was going to go. Because he couldnt get any food through him.
And your pancreas is I found all this from Dr. Kaiser from talking to him, is back of your
stomach. The head of it is over on this side, the tail is over on this side. The head of
it is fastened into your liver and your gall bladder. And he said when you get it over in
here, theres nothing you can do for anybody. They put a tube in here is actually
three tubes of pretty good size, a smaller one and then a smaller one inside of that . The
larger one, with a button sewed to his skin here on the outside held this in place. The
next two were in his stomach. When he got nauseated, he could drain this fluid out. The
little one was to give him food to feed him directly into his small intestine and also for
morphine. Now I talked to Breckbill, shes still here, Phyllis Breckbill. Her son is
a radiologist sat Wesley Hospital. He and Jim were in school down there and when we were
getting ready to go and I said, what about keeping people comfortable, and he said,
"Well, there seems to be a new philosophy with a lot of doctors. It used to be you
dont give em too much, youre making dope fiends out of them, dont
give em too much morphine. Well, he said, a terminal case, its a case of
keeping him comfortable." Fortunately with Jane, she knew that stuff forward and
backward, she could talk to the doctor and the hospice nurse about doses they were going
to give him and so fourth. He was still eating some, sometimes hed lose it all a few
minutes after he ate, but he was still eating some when we went out there. That would have
been in, toward the end of April. Then it, then, they were feeding him, uh I dont
remember, Ensure is one, isnt it. There are two or three brands, I dont
believe that is what it was. But theyd feed him through this tube. And when it
finally got down to the latter weeks there, he said just forget it, which is tough to sit
and watch someone go down hill and theres not a thing anyboyd can do for it. Dr.
Cash out here, was talking to me the other night, he lost his wife about a year ago with
the same thing. Jack Benny had it. If you remember Jack Benny. He went in a sort time,
thats what he had, pancreatic cancer. The organist around town for years, Murf Cope
had it. I remember her and an internist I was going to them and we were going out and he
said, "Boy, thats what Murphy had." And I said, "You remember she
didnt last much." And he said, "Yeah, I remember." Jim had worked for
EPA all this time. He went to KU. He talked about being a pharmacist. And he, mentioned
this to Dave who has written some of this about the family, I took him down to see a
pharmacist I knew who was on the school board and just let him talk to pharmacists and see
what things are like and maybe have a summer job for him. He said well, I dont know
what youd do for us. And he said that really turned me off of being a pharmacist,
the way I got treated. He went up to KU and took his entrance exams in the summer then,
before school started, he said, "You know, Ive always liked math. I just think
Id like sometime to try engineering." And I said if youd like to try
engineering nows the time to do it. So KU is about the same if you wanted to be
electrical, architecture, mechanical, you name it, it was all about the same for two
years. Then at the end of two years, you gotta declare, well I want to be this. And they
just started this new department of, theres a better name for it, but its
water supply and sanitation is what it actually meant to. It was a new department, so he
chose to go that way. And he stayed and got his masters in 57 and in, five
years, 62, then he finished with his masters up there. The draft was on, he
could go to work for the (pause) public health service. You haven't heard that name,
have you, for years.
Interviewer: No.
Thompson: OK, it was the Department of Navy. So he took a commission in the navy, had a
uniform. If he flew on the airplane home he could fly for half price and all that good
stuff. But he was at the research lab in Cincinnati then he was in Chicago for a while,
then he was back in Cincinnati. Then he found out that they would pay his way to work on
his doctorate, so he went to UCLA for five quarters. He finished everything but his
doctorate, except finishing his dissertation. He took his orals and written, but said I
dont plan on finishing it, I want my engineering license in California. That means
more to the job that I have than a doctorate degree. That doesnt mean much, but an
engineering license which he got all right.
Well, lets see. Jane was, she went to Wichita State one year, she wanted to be an
elementary teacher and shed read to the kids in the neighborhood and play school and
just always wanted to be a teacher. Well she went one year and the first semester was not
very good. I talked to one of the people I knew in the education department out there and
said whats she enrolled in and I said, well, social logy and biology, psychology and
she said, well, she should have had some fun courses. And Jane told me the first day in
the biology course said, I had 160 students last semester, 50 of them got Fs, something
like that. Make you real enthused. She studied hard, she had a D in biology at the end of
the nine weeks, and she said, well, Im going to transfer over to business, go a
couple of years, go downtown and get me a job. Forget this. So she went over to get her
folder from the education department, and some of the education profs standing around in
there made some remarks, "Well, whats the matter? Is it too tough for you over
here? You cant make it?" I said something about six or eight years about this
and asked, do I remember this right, and she just got red in the face even thinking about
it and said, thats exactly right. I was so fed up with that department. So the next
years, she said Jims had such a good experience at KU, couldnt I go to KU? So
I just as soon she was in business, my wife and I, but she called us, I think she wrote us
a note, and said youll be surprised but I went over to the education department to
see how long itll take me to graduate. They said I could graduate in three years so
Im back in the education department. So thats what she did. She taught school
one year outside of Lawrence. She married a fellow she went with in high school. He was a
football player at KU, and engineer. They red-shirted him when he was a sophomore because
they were knee-deep in tackles which he didnt care for because it meant theyd
have to pay his tuition, room and board and books for another semester. Which was all
right with them. So they got married just before Jane, he graduated in 64, yeah,
Christmas of 63. She taught in a little town outside of Lawrence. Then he took a job
with Bell Telephone the next year and she got a job in Topeka. And they were going to make
a manager out of him, and when youre going to be a Bell Telephone manger out here in
the city you go through the whole works. They sent him with a man, in those day when you
wanted a phone hooked up, they sent a man out and he crawled up on a pole and hooked up
his telephone and went through all that. And he was telling me, you wonder whats
going on. Whats happening, that guy hooks up his phone and dials Joe down here and
says Im down here at so and so, hook me up with line so and so. Joe calls to Jim
down in the basement and says hook up so and so to line so and so. So he does and the guy
out here on the line says, well, we got quite a bit of noise on that line, tell him to try
another line. So he calls down and says they got noise on that line. So he has to unsolder
the wires and solder them over here on another line. Thats whats taking them
so long out there.
Then he had worked for Boeing and they wanted him to come back go to work, so they came
here and she taught a year here in Wichita system. And he worked at Boeing and worked on
his masters at WSU and got it. And then was teaching part time out there. Come the
end of the summer, I think it was, he taught a course. And this fellow says well, I wish
you were out here all this time teaching. He said, well, make it worth my while, I
probably would. And they said it wouldnt be any trouble to pay you what
Boeings paying. So he taught a year or two out there. But he decided to get his
doctorate at the University of Wisconsin so they were in Madison for quite a while.
Interviewer: Did he get it yet?
Thompson: Oh yeah. He got it. They broke up about 83 I think, it has been quite a
while. Then Jane remarried, a fellow that works for IBM. Lets see, it would have
been about this time maybe. The boys came a different times and stayed with us. I remember
taking Jason out to a soccer game. They played soccer when they were kids in Madison. And
food always helps a little bit. You know, after the game, go eat someplace, you know,
people like to talk. And I said I was sorry that his mother split up and he says,
"Granddad." I said how Fred was always nice to me. And he said, "Granddad,
he had a motive in that. He wanted you to think that it was her fault instead of his that
they split up." I thought, well, thats pretty straight.
Lets see, weve talked about Jane. I can tell you more about grandkids.
Barb, she was an interior major. If you want your new carpet, couches and kitchen redone,
a swimming pool built, shes got a business in Denver and she runs it. And then Dave
is the one that is back at Longwood Gardens.
Interviewer: In Pennsylvania?
Thompson: Yeah. He the two boys went to KU. Their parents went to KU. Jason got
acquainted with a student from South America, Paraguay, I think thats right. So this
fellow says why dont you go home with me for the summer? So he finally decided to.
So he said before they were going to leave a week or so they were talking, and this fellow
says, well my parents wont be there when we get there. Jason after while said you
got a key to the house so we can get in. He broke up laughing and theres six
servants in the house. The father owned an automobile agency and a whole bunch of stuff
down there. Well he and two or three others got started I think beer was one thing they
sent so South America, they want beer and weve got stuff they need. They need
machines to pick cotton down there and they were going to go big guns. They did it for a
year or two but I dont think they did any good at it. Jason got hooked up with some
guys in Chicago and started being a bond salesman. Then he went to school at the
University of Chicago and got his masters in business. Now Drew got his degree in
business from KU. Barb, he finished in the middle of the year, so she says come out to
Denver Ill get you a job someplace. Well she finally ended up the only thing she
could get was the Denver Post, writing on the financial page. And I was out there after I
lost my first wife for a week or 10 days and hed have an article almost every day in
the Denver Post. Drew Elder, thats my grandson. (Interview laugh). And he said you
get the information over the wire about 2 oclock in the afternoon and they want it
downstairs by 3 oclock to start printing. But she finally got him caught on, I think
he was selling bonds. Yeah, thats what he was doing. Then Fidelity Investment in
Boston which is a big investment company, I think theyre the ones that started
wooing him and recruiting. They flew him back twice about a job back there. This would be,
as I understand it, manage a certain fund. You invest money some way for this fund, you
give them the money and they invest it to make you money. Well, hes one of the guys
that invests money for the company. He got married, it will be two years this fall. We
were in Denver, he married a girl their in Denver. They flew her back once before they
were married to find a place to live. Moved them all back there.
Interviewer: That company did that he got on with?
Thompson: The company, Fidelity, they flew him back twice, they flew him back with her
again with her to look for a place to live when they got back there. Schools never did
that kind of stuff. Well Jason caught on as a salesman now and we were there a year ago.
We were out in Denver when Drew got married. Jason and his wife were there and she put her
arms around me and said, why dont you guys come to our place for Christmas. And I
said oh, you dont want us for Christmas and she said oh, wed just love to have
you to come. And Jason called, it was in October and said are you guys coming for
Christmas? I said well they must be serious about it. So we talked about it, do we drive
or fly. Well lets see what the fare is. I called the travel bureau that Ive
done business and says you wont believe it, but for $62 you can fly round-trip. Said
there are certain seats, United flights that they sell cheap. See this was the first part
of November. Well we quick like called and figured out when wed go and come back.
When I called back, I talked to a different person and I said theres something about
some $62 seats. Oh, yeah, she says, yeah there are some. So we got on it.
Interviewer: Wow.
Thompson: So it was a hundred and what, 20 some dollars for both of us to fly round
trip. Had a great time. It was kind of interesting. I said to Jason talking to him before
I was coming and said, Ill bring some dress-up clothes, what are we going to do? And
he said well you might bring a dress-up outfit. He became a Catholic when he was going to
KU. And I thought I bet were going to Midnight Mass. I dont know, are you
Catholic?
Interviewer: No.
Thompson: Im not either. None of my family. So Ann that works down here in the
pool, had the twins, maybe you know who she is. She doesnt work very much, but well
anyway, I said to her, what do we do if you go to Midnight Mass. She said, well, if you
want to stand up when they stand up. I wouldnt bother to kneel and go through that.
But if you want to stand up. And it was a beautiful service. They live northwest of
OHare Airport. And this church, we drove and drove the four-lane road and rode and
rode. Its about it was going to start at 11 oclock. So were down there
at 10:30 shortly after and I said to Jason where are we? And he said were about a
half mile west of Michigan Blvd., in the old part of town. Great big older church with
beautiful sculpture all over and what not. At 11oclock they started music up in the
for one hour up in the balcony, up in the back. Beautiful string players, brass, woodwind
players, beautiful soloists, vocal soloists, Christmas chorale, Christmas concerto which I
used at East High. It has nothing to do with Christmas, I dont know why they call it
Christmas concerto, its just string music and I hadnt heard that in years and
they played it. And they played a lot of Christmas carols. Then at 12 starts the service.
There must have been three priests, I dont know whats going one up in front.
One climbs up in the tower and preaches for half an hour or so. The last thing they did
when you came in, they gave you a candle about this big, about so long, everybody that
came in, and the last thing they did, the usher came down the aisle lighting the candle of
the person on the outside and you passed it down the aisle. I asked Jason afterward how
many people and he said about 2,000 in this church.
Interviewer: My.
Thompson: We got home, see that was at 2. We got out of there at 2 oclock, it was
a three-hour deal. We got home about 3 oclock I guess. He got up and put the turkey
in the oven about 4:30 cause his wifes relation and all. Thats the
granddaughter that lost both of her parents. Shes a landscape architect. She went to
school in Davis in California. Thats the engineering school and architecture. You
never hear much about it. Its a bigger than K-State is. Its close to
Sacramento. Its in Davis, Calif.
Interviewer: I think Ive heard of it.
Thompson: Yeah. A big school. I went out there when I lost my first wife and I went out
for the commencement, probably the last of May, the first part of June. Its hot
there. Alameda where they lived on the east side of the bay, theres this breeze in
the afternoon and you have to have cover at night. No air conditioning, you really
dont need it. You can tell the people that water their lawns, theyre pretty
good shape. Theres green lawns and brown lawns in Alameda. Some dont do
anything with it at all. These two are Daves. Of course, they are 11 years old,
87, 88. Scott was born in 83, she was born in 86, so Scotts
hes getting up about high school age. Remember the basketball player at WSU for a
while, Scott Thompson?
Interviewer: Yes.
Thompson: I didnt have any trouble remembering his name because thats my
grandsons name. (Both laugh)
Well, what else can I ramble on and tell you about?
Interviewer: Humm. Where did you say you met your first wife?
Thompson: At church.
Interviewer: At church?
Thompson: Fairmount United Church of Christ. Its about a block south of Wichita
State on Fairmount Avenue.
Interviewer: And.
Thompson: She was going there to church. Id finished school in 35. I think
the first place we ever went was in 36, probably January or February of 36. We
got married in 37.
Interviewer: Was she a housewife? Was she a housewife?
Thompson: Yeah, she worked some. After the four kids were grown. She was a secretary at
Mea, uh Mattewson School when it opened, she was one of the secretaries there. Shed
substituted some at East High in the office, and at West High. When we moved away from the
university. She was the secretary to the dean of business at Wichita State for a while, a
year or two. Then we moved away from the university and she said, Im not going to
work any more. And she actually was the first one to open the mental health office here in
Wichita. Its still going I think. Then she developed arthritis, a real bad case of
rheumatoid arthritis. And the pediatrician that lived across the street form us. She was
diagnosed about 69, we worked on our house, two downstairs bedroom, peeled the paper
off and painted and repapered them and what not, when we got through doing that, it took
us about two weeks working at night. And she said my hands are just killing me. And I said
mine dont feel too good, but theyre all right now. And I said you better go
see a doctor. And I came home one afternoon and she said feel my hands, how hot they are.
Ive got arthritis. Says thats when its doing damage, when its running
temperature in the joints. So there was a pediatrician that lived across the street and
after she had it about a year, he says do you know what arthritis is and I said, well I
have a vague idea. I read about it try to find. He says, its a very simple disease.
Your joints hurt. Youve got spurs on your cartilage that scratching. If we knew how
to get em off when you get em and keep em off, wed have it
whipped. But he said nobody knows what to do for it. The family doctor had taken care of
the whole family there for a number of years. After a few months, he says you ought to go
to a specialist. So she went down to Wichita Clinic and they put her on gold shots, which
is actually gold I guess in some form.
Interviewer: Is it really?
Thompson: Yeah. Then she developed, which is not unusual, lungs fibrosis they call it.
And this, what do they call it, theres a name for chest specialists. He said we have
to get you off of that. Then youre kind of up a creek without a paddle. I said to
this pediatrician one time, why do you, if aspirin did pretty good with her controlling it.
Aspirin controls the pain but also tends to retard the progress of arthritis. They
dont really know exactly why. I said to this pediatrician what do you do if you have
someone allergic to aspirin, you know stomach, tears your stomach up. He said, boy
youve got real problems. Theres not a whole whale of a lot you can do. I used
to ask him, this was back in the latter 60s, 70s, should we be going someplace for
treatment and he said youd get just as good a treatment in Wichita, Kan., because
nobody knows what to do for it. And hed say, I been to Boston to a pediatrician
thing and he said, I see a lot of little kids with arthritis and nobody knows what to do
about it yet. And he was pretty good to us through the years.
She had both hips replaced, she had joints in one of her hands replaced, it didnt
do much good. But her hands were a mess, and her knees were a mess. In the latter years,
we went to an orthopedic doctor and he said well I dont think youre going to
do a whole lot more walking. If I thought that you knees would survive and you would, we
shouldnt do it. But if you want to well just go the route to keep your
comfortable. Ill give you a cortisone injection. That is not good if youre
going to preserve you knees to just do it continuously. But if thisll keep you
quiet, so what we said lets do that. She shed go about every eight weeks and
get shots in her knees and be reasonably comfortable. She was in a wheelchair most of the
time, she couldnt walk down to the dining room when we moved here, she was in a
wheel chair then. She developed some heart problems and died in Eden, Okla. Id been
going down there for a number of years to judge. I was going to quit when she developed
this, and theyd still write me and want me to come and I said well the only thing we
can do they put us up in a nice Ramada motel, new one. You could go, I could go down and
eat breakfast and you tell me what you want for breakfast and I could bring it back and I
could probably tell them what you want for lunch and theyll bring it down to you for
lunch. So if you want to go with me and she said, well, yeah, that sounds all right. So we
went a number of years down there. But Id been down there one day, judging, like
wed go down Tuesday, and Id judge Wednesday and we were sitting in a motel
room. We carried nitroglycerin and she said Im getting an awful pain in my chest so
I gave her one, then I gave her another one and she was still not very comfortable and
said well, get a cool washcloth and put on my forehead which she had asked for a number of
times. When I came back she was sitting in a wheelchair. She was just laying back like
this. So I shook her and said can you hear me. I didnt get any response at all so I
called 911 and told them where I was and they were there in nothing flat. The first one in
the door was a man and she was in the wheelchair and he said help me lay her on the floor,
and we laid her on the floor. By that time in came four or five with all this equipment.
Got up and started pushing on her chest, finally one of them stood up and looked at me and
says we need to take her to a hospital, where do you want to go. And I said I dont
know this city, where should we go and he said theyre all alike. Theres three
here, how about the closest one. I said it makes sense to me. And this lady looks at me
said do you have a car or you can ride with us and I said Id rather ride with you
cause I dont know this city. She said come on, get in the passengers side. Did
you ever ride in an ambulance going down the street? Well, its kind of an
interesting ride. By the time we got out to the street, she turns on the siren and you
start down the street, then you come to about there were four or five stoplights before we
got to the hospital. Shed pull out around all the cars on the wrong side then
reached down here and turned on another Beep! Beep! Beep! Beep! And like that you get
through the intersection and on youd go. I dont know how fast she drove, 40,
50 miles an hour when it was flat, but went pretty slow when we went through the
intersections.
They worked with her and the doctor came to me and talked to me several times and said
she was not responding. After about an hour and a half, he said, well, I think we might as
well quit. Her heart is still beating some, but she hasnt had any blood pressure for
a half hour, 45 minutes. You know what happens to your brain when something like that. So
that was the end of that. They, when I got there, they said do you want us to call a
chaplain and I said Oh, I dont think so but they did and he came in. We sat there in
a little office and visited and they came in and talked to me a number of times. So when
they came in and told me this was the end of it, I said to this chaplain, well, I have two
brothers, she has three sisters Ive got four. When do you call them. He said, call
them this evening, dont wait until morning. So I started in with my four kids I
guess, and I talked to Jim in California, Jane was, she was in Green Bay I think at that
time. I was talking to Barb and got through with here and they said youre wanted on
the line and so and so and Janes husband, Paul, hes in Chicago, he works for
IBM. And Jane had told him, Pauls not here, hes in Chicago. He said Ill
come down and drive up with you tomorrow if you want me to. And I said oh you dont
have to Ill be all right. He didnt argue, and said, let me call you in the
morning and see how you feel. So he called about 7:30 or 8 oclock and I said well I
didnt sleep too much, maybe it would be a good thing. Its a 130, 40 miles, and
you dont sleep very good. So he said that morning whats the best place Tulsa
or Oklahoma City I checked and its about the same and I said I dont think it makes
much difference, its about the same. And he said Ill probably come into Tulsa,
how do I get there? And I said get on the Turnpike and when you cross 35, just keep on
that four-lane it will take you right into Enid and its right on the west side of
Enid, stay right on that street and highway and youll come out on the west side of
Enid on the left hand side is the Ramada and in the southeast corner on the first floor.
So he came about noon, I guess, I think I went down and ate lunch. I think maybe about 1
oclock. He drove in, said he came to Oklahoma City and he asked how do I get to Enid
and they said go ask that lady over there, she commutes all the time. She says stay on old
high A, 81, dont bother to get on the four-lane its about 20, 30 miles east to 35.
You come right up 81, its just about straight out of Oklahoma City.
So I lived a while by myself and I didnt like it. (both laugh). No, I dont
know, I guess Im a people person.
Interviewer: How long did you live by yourself.
Thompson: I lived almost three years. Yeah, yeah. I finally went down after a year or
so and asked John down here, what, Im not connected with anyone, but before I do I
want to find out financially what happens, what do you have to do here? You dont
have to pay another entry fee. You pay a sizeable entry fee, equivalent to the price of
your house when you move in here. That they refund to your heirs when you sever all
connection, not just go down and live in the health care center because you might get well
enough to come back and youve given your money away. So they keep it until you sever
all. You either move out or you die, but you dont have to pay more than that. Then
there was the question about the health fee. I said to him you know, my wife Dorothy never
spent any money down there in the health care thing, we paid 10-5 at that time, maybe
theyd give me credit for that. I didnt think theyd do it, its set
up on an insurance thing. Just because you dont have any wreck with your car they
dont give youre your premium back. I said if they wont to that, then
maybe theyll give me credit. It was then $23,000. They give credit for that $10,500.
He talked to me later said there was no discussion on the first one but on the second one
there was quite a bit of discussion, but they didnt do it. Because I didnt
really want to get into that responsibility because she could get into something terminal
and she didnt have any insurance and you could have got yourself into a pickle. So
she got this insurance.
And she had a house to sell. And Id already sold a house and taken a one-time
deduction you can take, capital gains. And then the Internal Revenue looks at it, what was
your status when you got married. So we waited until after she sold her house so she could
take it so the government kind of dictates to you a little bit.
Well, Ive rambled on and on, I guess.
Interviewer: Well, I think probably weve covered most of it and it has all been
very interesting to me
Thompson: I dont know, its kind of dull.
Interviewer: No, it wasnt dull at all.
Thompson: Ive had a I think a reasonably good life. I I said to my kids one time,
the bad part of what I did is is I didnt make any money. (Interviewer chuckles) And
they said, yeah, but we had some pretty good times together. We got to take a few trips
together. I remember I belonged to the East Kiwanis Club and I guess the first time, the
president couldnt go to the national, the international convention they called it.
It was in Cleveland, I believe. I was secretary and they said how you going, well
give you $200 I think or something to go. Well it only cost me $100 for a room and
transportation. I came home with $200. So I told my wife, lets just get on the
train, lets find out how much the train costs to Chicago and what we can get
reservations for. The train deal I think was around $98. We stayed at the Hilton, the
Conrad Hilton on Michigan Ave., $20 a night. Had two rooms with a door in between. They
put a rollaway in each room. There was room for six. We saw a lot of Chicago, went to
baseball games and museums and all that stuff. And my kids for a long time talked about
that. And it really was great, you could go up in the dome car and sit and visit with them
and talk with them, you know, instead of having to drive all the time. It really turned
out to be a good trip
We went to Colorado, lets see Jim didnt go on one of those trips, but all
four of us went to Crested Butte, thats quite a resort out there. Now it was just
getting started when we were out there. My wife got acquainted with somebody that had an
old house that they had fixed up and rented for I think $25 a week. Course $100 rent at
that time for a house was pretty good rent would get you a pretty good house in these
days. Well at this time, Jim would have been about nine years old. And then I begin to
hear about students just blowing up and quit coming to school and even some faculty
members. Kids that just having all kinds of trouble with them. And I thought, oh dear,
Ive got four coming along, whats going to happen to me. And Ive really
been proud of them. The first one went sailing through no trouble, the second one goes on
through the third one and the fourth one. And four years after they got out of high
school, they all had a college degree. So you cant say anything bad about that.
Interviewer: Thats wonderful.
Thompson: And thats a little tough to do on a school teachers salary. I had
two in university there for a number of years. Two dorm bills and two tuitions. And they
were all out of town except Jane who stayed that one year at home. And of course Jim went
five years up there. He was interested, as I said, in water and sewage and that sort of
thing. He built a miniature water treatment plant for his masters. Go down to the
Kaw River and start it in here and it was out of plastic and it was glued together and
then it would come out pure down here. I wish he were around now. Theyve been having
trouble with the algae out here on these lakes. Theyve had them sprayed, Jim would
have known that stuff forward and backwards. It didnt happen in his time when he was
around. I think, now I could be wrong, I think he said one time theres not much you
can do for it. Im sure he was the one that old me, I just wish he was around to
verify it. That all this fertilizer that theyre putting on lawns, see a lot of this
water is piped in, its piped in across the street, you see these big things coming
into these lakes, well thats, I think thats a good thing to keep from flooding
out here in the streets when you have a five-inch rain heres this thing to carry it
off and get rid of it, but I think you get a lot of fertilizer out here in the lake. I
think thats part of the problem.
Interviewer: I dont know. I know ponds, farm ponds have been known to get a lot
algae.
Thompson: They did on the farm growing up as kids, but not as bad as this. This just
gets awful out here. Theyre supposed to put fish in that would take care of it, I
dont think it did any good.
Yeah, you probably wonder how did we happen to get up here? We started living in an
apartment. We lived there from July to about September or October and we both said this
apartment living is not, we ought to be getting a house. So we ran on to a little house
that was about oh, 15 years old I guess at the time. They wanted $2,500 for it. The real
estate agent said I think if you offer them 24, I think you can buy it.
Interviewer: And that was in what year do you think?
Thompson: 37, it was 38 when we made the deal for it. And then there was a
nice house out there by the university. I came home from doing my church choir one Sunday
and my wife says so and sos house is for sale out here. I called about it.
Theyve got a price of, I think, $9,250 or something. She said we can go see it this
afternoon, I said, wont do any good. I dont know how well finance that.
She said, well, well go. It had a coal furnace and that was in 45. This real
estate agent said theyre desperate to sell it. If youd offer them $7,500, I
think youd buy it. And this little house that first bought had a coal furnace and we
put coal in it for a couple of years and in 40 we put a gas furnace in, this was in
45. So we made them an offer with a contingency that we could sell our house and
this guy was going to list it. He sold it in about a week for about twice as much as we
paid for it which paid a big chunk on $7,500. The we lived there until 56 and about
doubled our money on that and bought a house on south Glendale; Glendales one block
east of Oliver, and we were about a half a block north of Kellogg. We begin to get a
little big jumpy, we began to hear about what they were going to do to Kellogg. Then my
brothers stayed on the farm out there with my folks. Then they passed away several years
ago. Then the Koch Co. had been wanting to buy the farm out there. Finally they all at
once offered $500 more than theyd ever offered for it. We talked about it and said
if theyd give us $500 more than that an acre, we might consider it. Which they did
and we sold it. That was in 83. So Dorothy was having trouble with arthritis and I
said we need to do something with this house. Well, Jane and her husband were home and
Jane said, yeah, if you fix the kitchen, its going to cost you a chunk. And I said
yeah, 10 years ago they wanted $3,500 and she said, youll pay $8,000 or $10,000 if
you do very much. Why dont you look for another house? You wont have an
attached garage when you get that done, youll have these steps on the front of the
house. So we started looking and we finally found another one. And we sold that house for
more than twice as much as we paid for it as I remember.
Interviewer: The one on south Glendale?
Thompson: Yeah, we got there in 56 and that was 83. Sold it in about a week
or 10 days. We had looked but didnt find anything that really just appealed to us.
There was one on 17th St, west of Woodlawn. We went back up there a second time
to look at it, it was then empty. These people were pretty anxious to sell. And finally we
decided on a price and this real estate agent said well come on down in the morning and
well write up a contract on it and see if we can buy it. Wed sold ours so we
needed something to get going. So my wife read the morning paper and there was a house in
Pine Valley Estates ranch house, three bedroom, family room, tra-la-la. So she showed the
ad to this real estate agent when he came in and he said I dont know that house. And
they know all of them, everybodys got everybody elses..
So he called said, well, it belongs to one of the ladies thats an agent there.
She married one of the man agents there. She had a house and he had a house, he sold his
and they bought another one and now shes selling hers. Thats her house. You
can see it about 4 oclock this afternoon. So we agreed and he wrote up this contract
and I can take it up and get it typed up this afternoon. We met him at 4 oclock and
walked through this house and I thought we must have looked at 10 or 15 houses and boy I
like this house better than any weve looked at. We kind of went our separate ways,
walked around. And I finally said to my wife, what do you think? And she said well I like
this one. I said well I like it better than any weve looked at, so we walked out the
front door, and he said I think if youd make an offer of about such and such, I
think youd buy this house. And we said, well heres that contract on that other
one. You can mull that over on what you want to do. So he called a time or two in the
evening, finally I said we want to see it again. Im either this way about people,
cars, furniture's, TVs, you name it. I dont know how you are, but I see things I
dont I dont like the second time, or I see things, yeah, this is better than I
really thought it was. Im that way. This has features I didnt see in it when I
looked at it before. So he says, well, if I give me a check for down payment I think you
can buy this house for what we were talking about. And he called in about 30 minutes, and
said, yep, you bought a house. (both chuckle)
Now the problem was they had bought another house, theyd gotten married,
theyd bought another house with a swimming pool for their kids. They were anxious to
get over there. But those people who had that house were having a house built. So these
people couldnt move until they got the house built and we couldnt move out of
ours and these people are on our back wanting to move. One of those kind of things.
Interviewer: Howd you handle it?
Thompson: I think we did all of this about the first part of June. We moved up to that
house in September, the Saturday before Labor Day. And then Dorothy begin to get more
trouble with arthritis. She fell when we were back in visiting Dave. Didnt break any
bones, cut her head and kind of a bad trip coming home, trying to keep her comfortable
because we were driving. Id talked to the nurse in the orthopedic office here and I
said when we get to town, well come up and see you which we went straight to the
clinic down there and talked to her. She said well the way you describe it, she ought to
be in the hospital. So the doctors over there is seeing patients right now, and the
clinics to Wesley. And she said let me call, hes still in the hospital, go
around and go in the emergency room door. It always pays to have friends in this world. A
former student of mine was on was a security person down there and he came over to the car
when we drove in and I told him what the deal was and he said see that no parking over
there, pull right over there and park there. And he pulled his walkie-talkie out and said,
need a cart for a lady and by the time we pulled over there and parked, out came people to
pick her up and he was waiting down in the emergency room. I think they did some more
x-rays right then; she didnt have any broken bones. But while she was in the
hospital one afternoon, somebody came to see her, friends of ours, and I walked out with
her and she said, have you ever looked at Larksfield? Said I understand that is a great
retirement place. And I said, no, I really havent. So one afternoon when she said
why dont you go home and get some sleep, because if I wanted to see the doctor, I
had to be down at the hospital at about 6 oclock in the morning and wait for the
doctor, sometimes they make rounds early, sometimes its later. If you want to talk to the
doctor and see him, you gotta get there early and I tried to stay and help her eat and
whatnot. So instead of going home, I came up here and walked in the front door there and
walked over to the desk and I kind of think Kate Bohannon was sitting on the desk. And I
said I know nothing about this place, is there somebody I could talk to. Said, yeah, have
a seat. In a few minutes, Sharon Dillon came down, you know which one she is. So she took
me on a tour, at that time her office was on the west side up on about the second or third
floor. Went back up there, she wrote out all the financial stuff, that was December, along
in January I said to Dorothy one day well I went up to Larksfield, Ill get out the
stuff and go over it with you.
And we started getting invitations up for lunch from Sharon. Well, I said we dont
have anything to lose, Georgetown did that. We went down there, I really was not too
impressed with Georgetown.
Interviewer: Really? Why?
Thompson: Well two things. One is you have to go get your tray of food. Dorothy
couldnt carry a try. What do I do, go over and get in line and get her tray then do
I go back in line and get mine. Most of the rooms, except for corner rooms, your windows
open up out on this atrium out here with people walking by right there in your window.
Your windows are not in the bedrooms. Now some corner apartments, some few corner
apartments, the windows are in the living room, but most of them if you pull the drapes in
the living room, thats people walking right by there, which just didnt appeal
to me at all.
But we came up here and I guess a few days later we got to talking about it and she
said you know, if we could afford to move up there, I think we ought to. If something were
to happen to you, I know whatll happen all four of them will come home and then
theyll say, what are we going to do with mom. Take her to California or the east
coast or what. She said I dont want any part of that. Ive lived around here
all of my life and I got to thinking then, gee, if something happened that she gets to the
place where I cant take care of her, boy the price you pay is just something else,
$3,000 a month or so most of these care places are. Then I got to thinking the next 15
minutes, if something happens to me right now, theres two of us. So, we better just
take a close look at this. I sat for about three days, not that you sit all day long, but
you kind of look at the figures and then you go back and see if you think youve got
everything and the thing I never could come up with is what does it cost you to live in a
house for maintenance. Im not talking about what the gas, water and that stuff, you
can pretty well get that. What does it cost you for garbage disposal, for paint on the
outside, air conditioners? What per month. I never could feel comfortable. I finally said
$150 a month, about that, $1,800 a year. I may have been high, I dont know. I was
trying to compare it with this. What are we paying per month in a house and what will we
be paying up here? And it looked like wed be paying more, which we are. Which sounds
reasonable. So I wrote all this out and sent copies to my four kids and said, look it over
and see if Ive missed anything. Why dont you see what you can find out about
retirement places where you live, California, and so on. I remember Jim in California
saying well there was a big one out here that went bottom up. They got it straightened out
and its now open and going again. Dave on the east coast says oh, theyre a lot
of them back here, theyve been going for years. All of the nice ones have long
waiting lists, cant get in em. Says sounds like you got a pretty good deal
cause you can pay $90,000 entry fee and if something happens to you the next day and you
dont get any of it back. So it sounds like you have a pretty good deal here. I
suppose you know the deal year. Its something. You pay in addition to an entry fee,
you pay an insurance fee if youre insurable. Then if something happens to you and
you have to go live over there, you pay the same the same monthly thing, except the feed
you more, you have additional meals or something over there and youll have other
cost that will come up. Basically thats what you pay, the same thing that
youre paying here. But now if youre out here and something happens to you and
you have to go live in one of these care places, theyre awful. This place I think is
charging outsiders down there its close to $4,000 I think some of those people are
paying. Down in Larksfield.
Interviewer: In the care??
Thompson: In the care place. They save so many rooms for us up here because they
cant move people out of there to another place if they need the room. They may
double up rooms, you may have a roommate for a while if you want a private place. But
thats kind of understandable. But thats what kind of forced us to get real
serious about moving up here. Now some of my friends, some of the people in the school
business, something happen to them, they couldnt move up here now if they wanted to
because theyre not insurable any more, they re too big a risk.
Interviewer: Oh.
Thompson: And most people will say, Im just not ready to do that yet. What are
you waiting for, to have a heart attack? Or be diagnosed with some terrible disease. You
need to get here, which we did. Now Dorothy was a question whether she would be insurable
or not. It took a little time and they finally took her as being insurable, and we paid
the fee, $10,500. Its almost $40,000 now, the insurance thing. But she never used
any of it, so you can feel bad, but as we were saying earlier, you dont get any of
your car premium back and if your house doesnt burn down, you dont get any of
that back. So, its one of those things.
Interviewer: So youre still glad that you made that decision, right now?
Youre still glad that you made the decision to move?
Thompson: Yeah, yeah. Its an expensive place, there isnt any doubt about
it. But I guess its like cars and houses and clothes and shoes, if you want nice,
you have to pay for it. Its that simple. I think this is by far the nicest place in
town. Ive been in several of the others. This chorus I sing in weve sung in
several of these others. Theyre, some of them are nice, but they dont have
dining rooms compared with this. Most of them, the rooms are smaller than this. Now there
are smaller ones that this, there are one-bedroom ones. I guess the living room might be
bigger, Im not sure. Across the hall here, the Roberts have a deluxe two bedroom
which this is bigger. The bedrooms are the same size, but the living rooms . But are
you going to bring your dining room table and eight chairs and buffet and entertain here?
Nobody has to cook. You take em down to the dining room and eat down there.
There are some big apartments here where they put three of these smaller ones together
and theyre big. But, I, this is adequate.
Interviewer: I would think so.
Thompson: We were blessed that our daughter Barb when we decided to do this she said if
you want me to Ill come home and help you. So she got her clipboard and said, OK,
and drew this room to scale and said I think you ought to take that couch, measure it. And
I measured it and she drew a little couch and put it under this. Now measure the
bookshelves and measure the chairs and she drew little ones and put em there and
moved them around and finally said, well, I think thats your living room and drew on
top of this big sheet, you know. Said, now theres you living room, lets do
your bedroom. So she said Ill come back when you move if you want me to. And she
did, stood at the door with the movers and said put that table there, put that couch here
and put this there, and all we had was a string of boxes out in the hall with pots and
pans and books and records and things like that. But we were pretty well basically moved
in. She hung the art work, moved it around a little bit. I did the clocks. (Pause) But we
sold a bunch of stuff. She said I think the best thing to do is have an estate sale, move
just what you want. So, a fellow that she went to school with, he and his wife, was
working for , cant think of his name, hes been in the business for years. We
used them. They, you get into things like we moved here the next day after Labor Day and
they said give us two weeks and well have an estate sale. In about two days they
called and said youve got so much stuff in that house we cant get it ready in
time (interviewer laugh) and were going to have to have longer. So, see Larksfield
Place agreed to take our house; they did that for a while. We never could sell it, we lost
some money on it. Its the only house I ever lost money on. But this was in 89
and houses werent selling very good. So finally one day I said to my wife what
theyre offering us were going to lose money, but I said what would we do with
that money if we had it? Wed invest it. It would bring us in about so much. If
were that short on money, we ought to just forget the whole business. I dont
think were that desperate for money. Its just your pride, you hate to,
lets just tear the page out the book and forget it and go do it. So thats what
we did. And Ive been glad we did it, particularly after I lost her. I would have
been lost I think in a big house. It was a nice house. Are you familiar with Woodlawn, 10th
Street, south of 13th and Woodlawn. Go about a block and a half east
(Interviewer: Thats a great area.) on 10th street. Theres some nice
houses in there. This was a three bed-room; the master bedroom had two closets, had a half
a bath I guess Id say, a stool and a walk-in shower, which was good for Dorothy.
Tubs were no good for her. Then you had a full bath at the end of the hall with two
bedrooms on either side of that hall. You had a lavatory and a stool at the end of the
hall where the washer and dryer were off of the kitchen by the garage door and the
basement door. You had a large living room. In between the living and the family room was
a dining area where you could put your dining room table and buffet and all that stuff.
Then if you had a crowd of people in there, theyre all kind of in one place instead
of being around the corner here. That house on 17th that we looked at had a
fairly small living room and to get to the family room you had to go around this way or go
around through the kitchen. It had a huge master bedroom, huge, you could put a couch and
desk and two easy chairs, and I don't know, you dont live in a bedroom that much. I
think you need, if you're going to have big rooms, you need it out where youre
going to spend most of the day. But this is a nice house, I really liked it, it was just
petty good shape when we moved there, paint and paper and all that.
Interviewer: And you were comfortable after you moved in here because this would be
somewhat smaller than what you lived in.
Thompson: Yeah. But you know I never felt that way too much. I was doing all the house
work when we were living there. You get a house that big and when you run the vacuum
today, well you got the family room, the living room, the dining room, the hallway, three
bedrooms to vacuum, you ought to dust. Keep the bathrooms all clean, thats one, two,
three lavatories, plus the kitchen.
Interviewer: Thats a bit much.
Thompson: But it was nice, it was a nice house, we enjoyed it. When the kids came home,
we had a lot of room to put up people. Had a couch, there was one room finished in the
basement, carpeted. I kind of fixed it up for my room, and record player and books and
filing cabinet and I had room to put my workbench that I worked on clocks. Ive got a
bench upstairs, you want to see it?
Interviewer: A bench?
Thompson: A workbench, and my tools upstairs. That was part of the agreement when we
moved here. I didnt want to give up my tools. And this guy that was kind of dealing
with said, well, maybe just you make them gifts and kinds to Larksfield. I dont want
to give my tools to Larksfield. My kids may want them. And Kate finally talked to them and
they said, well theres a room down there at the end of the hall, but theres
weavers in there. You wouldnt want to be in there with a bunch of weavers with all
that dust and fuzz. And I said, Ah, if youve clock, cover it up when you go and
leave. Doesnt bother me. Then thats where we moved and there was a weaver in
there.
Interviewer: So you share a space with another person.
Thompson: Yeah, yeah. This is a pretty good sized room. Then Breckbill lived next door
here. He was a clock man, and he had his work bench in there in the small bedroom. I said,
no, you, bring it down here, theres plenty of room in this room. So he was tickled
to death to move down there. Then John Wells talked to us and they needed that room on the
first floor and said would you guys move up on third floor? So we went up and looked at
that room; I think that rooms actually bigger. Its just a little more trouble
to go up the stairway but thats immaterial. So they said, maintenance can help you
move. So I agreed, like an afternoon, well, well move. I came home and saw one of
them in the hall and he said, oh, we moved you this morning. I thought well I hope you got
it all up there. (Interviewer laugh) I went up there that afternoon, Breck was there, and
they came and said how would you guys like to have some cabinets on the wall?
Interviewer: Oh my.
Thompson: I said yeah, that one right there. That would look great over my work bench.
And Ive got a table up there. Dorothys dad did that did our work on that. I
said that cabinet would look great right up there over that table. And Breck said, yeah,
those corner cabinets, yeah thatd be great (Thompson laugh). And they said, how
about some lights? And I said, yeah, you got any of those that you put under the cabinet.
Yep, we got em. Well, Id like one here and Id like
Interviewer: Isnt that something? Thats like being able to.
Thompson: You want to see it?
Interviewer: I wouldnt mind it.
Thompson: OK, well go up there. Unless you want to talk about something.
Interviewer: Well, Ill tell you what though. I might need to make plans to do
that on another day, but Id like to see it. Would that be possible?
Thompson: Oh sure, only takes about five minutes if you want to see it.
Interviewer: Ok, I guess we could do that now. I want to thank you for the interview.
Thompson: Well, Ive chattered and gone on, I dont if that is what you want
to know (both laugh)
Interviewer: It is, its going to be great.

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